Vicky Langford
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Field Notes on Love

Modern love, decoded

Smart, witty writing on modern love, heartbreak, self-respect, and the emotional confusion of dating in a low-effort age.

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This site is for you if…

  • You're dating in 2026 and would like it to feel less like a psychological obstacle course.
  • You keep meeting the same person in a different font.
  • You're trying to set standards without becoming a full-time relationship negotiator.
  • You want modern love decoded—with stories, plain-English psychology, and practical tools.

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Read my latest essays and notes on modern love, heartbreak, and emotional clarity.

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The book

If you're freshly dumped (or still low-key stalking an ex on Instagram), my breakup survival guide is here to help you reframe the whole thing — with humour, clarity, and a plan.

Book cover: To All the Men Who Dumped Me